July 30, 2010
July 26, 2010
乡野奇谈
中午和同事吃午饭不懂由那位开始聊起灵异事件结果大家的‘聊性’都被撩起。
在座的多是马来西亚的同事所以故事的背景都很有身临其境的感觉。
我是我外婆带大的所以我听的故事都是她告诉我的。
我一面帮她捶脚或帮她拔白头发她就一面告诉我她在二战时期避难落户于‘海外’的乡野故事。
‘海外’是距离市区百多公里的荒野之地。在当时的人们来说之不过是区区不到一个钟头的车程他们得花一天一夜的内陆舢板才可以抵达的地方。你可以想像当时我们的先辈的生活有多艰辛。当时外公外婆是住在近海的椰林内。那地方我在小时候还去过呢！外婆指这那一片洁白的沙滩侧说那里死了好多的英军和日军。到了傍晚太阳下山就会看到蓝绿色鬼火和哀号声。当然，当时的我可没有勇气走到海边看个究竟。
她也指着重在篱笆旁的仙人掌还有友族篱笆上的倒刺说那些是用来防巫术的设置。她说当时的友族对敌人下降头术时那些蛊物是避开那些荆棘的。原因是它们的灵体会被勾着不能离开。人们也爱养种叫 "karuo"的鱼因为它会挡煞。＃原来友族也是会堪舆之术？＃ 据说这鱼会把进到屋内的邪物给吃掉。外婆就告诉我说那些异术真的存在因为她本身就亲眼见过。她记得那个傍晚当她在井边洗澡的时候就突然一阵的浓烈腥臭味。她心知不妙于是就决定批了纱笼立刻离开哪知就在那时候她见到一团依稀是会蠕动的内脏带着绿蓝光在她头上飞过。回到家中告诉曾祖父母时除了挨骂因为不该那么迟还在外边接着下来就大病了几天。结果还时请了马来‘高人’来帮她处理她才复原。据说她见到的就是巫师放出来的降头。
我们砂劳越的伊班土著也是深懂这些禁忌的一族。他们一直以来在生活上都遵循先人留下来智慧。外公除外打猎或椰园里都雇用他们。据说出门狩猎或开垦时如果某种鸟类出现且发出特定的鸣叫声他们就立刻折返。你肯定认为这是无稽之谈？但相信我我祖辈那代就算是华巫两族也是深信不疑的。有种叫鬼鸟的据说它出现就会有人去世。另一种会很喧闹的鸟一鸣那家人就会有喜事。他们最怕的是蛇。如果能把它们赶走当然是最好但如果逼不得以得杀了它们就要赶尽杀绝因为蛇是种报复心很强的灵性动物。她就告诉我说她园外另一邻居就在打蛇的时候把蛇的身体给打断了。头的部分竟然逃走了只留下尾巴的部分结果第二天他竟然发觉那蛇头竟然卡在他破了洞的蚊帐洞那似乎是来报仇来的。恐怖吧？
这就是其中一些我还印象深刻的故事。有些已经是忘记但想问外婆也不可能了因为近来她的健康每况愈下记忆力变差更是不在话下。
July 23, 2010
美丽境界
少有的坐在家中看电视节目。在岛国卷毛很少看这里的节目反倒是台湾的节目我真的是如数家珍。昨晚在看“康熙来了”的时候来宾竟然是齐秦。除去他的私生活他是自己欣赏拥有个人风格的声音。最喜欢的不是他的大约在冬季反倒是比较当时属于比较冷门的思念是一种病，外边的世界还有原来的我。哈。我懂很多八年纪生肯定不懂我在说什么？
事隔多年後他又发行这张翻唱的专辑。其中张三的歌近来还有印象的应该是星光胡夏唱过。如果没记错他自己的前专辑也有唱过。这首歌曾经是电影《父子关系》的主题曲，小人物坚强的面对生活的磨难和挫折，却仍然在心中充满着希望，让每一个人都为之感动，也告诫自己要阳光要积极要用正面的能量去面对困难。网络上是那样形容他的这首歌。个人就喜欢它的曲, 非常的简单且非常清新很容易就让人朗朗上口最重要是讯息非常的正面。
一早来到公司就在网络搜索现在正在我电脑播放着。看来它应该是我另一会让我出钱收藏的专辑。没要替他打歌之疑就只是分享。它的曲目来蛮多自己喜欢的歌。刚听完一遍虽然有点不同于原唱但自己还蛮喜欢。
July 22, 2010
八脚神算
我想世足后没多少人不认识保罗这只章鱼了。
也不懂是巧合还是它真的是有章鱼的预知力量所以能测中那么多场的赛事。
在想哪天搞不好有人会去拜章鱼？甚至创立个章鱼教之类的。
你别笑我乱说话，你没看到报纸都有报道人们膜拜自然界象形类的新闻吗？
难道人类就没动物那种超能力？我认为还是有的，不然怎么会有先知这一词？哈
就话说上几个星期和友人在Jalan Besar吃着某著名的猪杂汤的时候，
‘先知’卷毛又‘通灵’了。脑海就突然出现某人的影像于是就随口说，
要是那个C 君在就好了因为他最爱喝猪杂汤了。
话才刚出口C君就出现在我们不远处和我们高声打招呼。
大伙都一阵的错愕。还笑说我是不是‘通灵’人士？
我就没好气的笑着回答说: 如果我真的那么厉害我就预测ToTo首奖号码了！
突然就有一只握着ToTo票根的auntie手伸出来，问我们要不要买ToTo?
当下我们真的是吓到了。当然卷毛是买了但。。。没中！哈。
几天后的一个早上在走着去上班的途中，脑海突然浮现C小姐的影像。
心里就咕噜，奇怪？和她已经是八九年没见了、没什么交情的旧同事为什么会想到她？
还在心中嘟哝的时候就听到有人在叫我当我砖过头就见到C小姐！！！
和家人的心灵联系的“巧合”也是不胜枚举。常常就是心血来潮播电话回家，
而另一旁的家人就会说刚巧在想到我或才聊起我。
有时候工作到一半突然就觉得心神不宁，心情就莫名的忐忑。
第一时间播电话回家就“巧合”发觉家中有人身体抱恙。
你一定会说我有没有测中彩票或抽奖？那我可以很肯定告诉你：没有！哈。
从小我都没什么偏财运或赌博运。所以我就认为是“巧合”。
如果我真的可以预知或许我可以开档口摆摊给只指点迷津了。
我该取个什么名呢？卷毛居士？毛半仙? 哈哈。
July 18, 2010
Mega Combat 2010
今年是第四次参加在新达城主办的Mega Combat了。
一样难看的紫色t恤。一样的热情一样的开心也一样的闷热。
今年似乎比去年更多人，主办当局说破八百人？！
But who care? 最重要我想运动还真的会让人开心起来，
尤其是和自己一班朋友一起更开心。呵呵。
不相信？照片为证～
July 15, 2010
微小说 (三) 戒、止
为什么你还要见他？你自己明明知道是没结果的。
你也懂他是个烂人根本不会可能喜欢你的。
他都清楚的告诉你他是出来玩的。
会玩完一个换一个而你不过是他N个中其中的一个。
他说的话没有句真的，全都是谎言。。。
用一个接一个的谎言来掩饰一个又一个的谎言。
他对你说的话有那一项有兑现过？
保护你？屁！关心你？屁！给你买礼物？连个屁都没有！！！
就连那个圣诞礼物也是别人送他然后再转送给你的cheap东西。
你甚至都不知道他是从事什么工作？
有谣传他是做偏门情色按摩都不懂是不是姑爷仔？
好心你啦，正正经经的找个正经的好吗？
你醒醒啦！每次你知道他和其他女人在一起，
你虽然说不在乎但你心痛的样子难道我就看不到？
你以为我真的是个瞎子？你条件又不差何必要那么作贱自己？
你就不懂有人会心疼你？有人在爱你?有人可以牺牲自己的一切来换你的幸福？
你别哭啦。。。好啦，对不起啦。。。我我我就是不懂控制自己，不会说话。
别再哭了好吗？他不爱护你。。。
你还有我。。。#低语#
July 13, 2010
物欲
当X小姐迂回的炫耀她的手提袋Miu Miu是新币一千八时我们表现的若无其事，大家轻描淡写就带过。当我察觉到她眼中闪过一丝的失望时我心中真的觉得莞尔。她根本不知道Y君的Prada腰带就近千。踩在他脚下的鞋子也是过千。J 君的 Volkswagen是用现金买的。Z 小姐住的乌节公寓是她自己买。她买的 Rolex表是一系列同款但不同颜色而已。
但他们都是很低调也从来不会去炫耀。我想大家都清楚的知道彼此的友谊是建立在精神而不是物质上。但你问我会不会羡慕？我很坦白的告诉你我当然会羡慕。但我更清楚的告诉自己，我活在自己的能力范围内。我花的一分一毫都是自己的血汗钱所以花的心安理得。当人家拿着LV, Mont Blac 而我还是用着我的
Braun Buffel。人家用Gucci包包我还是背着我的Crumpler。别人穿着Boss, G-star是我还是穿着我穿了几年的Levis。他们在戴着Patek Philippe, Rolex我还是戴着我的G-shock。与其我背负着沉重的债务我还是选择安稳无忧的一步一脚印的过生活。当然我会努力向另个境界的方向迈进。
July 11, 2010
我感受到的幸福
带父母去超市买日常用品和食物。我在一边看他俩选大蒜和红葱。
和家人一起吃饭。大家在饭桌上话家常。妈妈给我做我最爱吃的芭咕野菜和煎昌鱼。
陪妈妈和妹妹去佛堂。
爸爸把赖床的我给叫醒要我起来吃早餐和他一起读报纸。
八十多岁的外公扶着我外婆。服侍她吃饭，喝水吃药。#当下我泪眼盈眶#
爸爸在背后吓妈妈。两老在打情骂俏。哈哈哈。
妹妹给我烤葡萄蛋糕。
给外婆的脚涂抹药酒。陪她聊天。
去爷爷奶奶和祖母灵位上香和他们问好。
接到我爱的人给我发来短讯关怀。
这些都是我回到家第二天来所感受到的幸福。。。
July 6, 2010
我們沒有在一起
我们没有在一起至少还像情侣一样
我痛的疯的伤的在你面前哭得最惨
我知道你也不能带我回到那个地方
你说你现在很好而且喜欢回忆很长
我们没有在一起至少还像家人一样
总是远远关心远远分享
我们没有一起至少还像朋友一样
你远远的关心 其实更长
我痛的疯的伤的在你面前哭得最惨
我知道你也不能带我回到那个地方
你说你现在很好而且喜欢回忆很长
我们没有在一起至少还像家人一样
总是远远关心远远分享
我们没有一起至少还像朋友一样
你远远的关心 其实更长
June 29, 2010
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怀念张雨生
会喜欢一些歌除了是它有悦耳的曲；另你有共鸣的词。
很多时候都是因为它能唤起很多的回忆。
在你听某首歌时在那个逝去的时空的心情。
当时的酸甜苦辣都会历历在目，涌上心头。
当年他最红的“我的未来不是梦”我并没有特别的喜欢因为还是个中学生。
在他突然车祸去世后才赫然发觉他很多歌我都懂也十分的惋惜那么个有才华的歌手就那么走了。人或许就是如此，人家在的时候你从没觉得对方特别重要直到有一天对方离开了、不在了才去依恋对方的一切。人不是很犯贱呢？
早在录影带还流行的年代我已经开始看台湾剧了。《金马大兵》《七匹狼》原来我都看过。虽然我从没有过他任何一片卡带 ＃那个年代只有卡带＃ 但是大海，一天到晚游泳的鱼，天天想你，我期待，还是朋友，最爱的人伤我最深，没有烟抽的日子，带我去月球，口是心非确是我最熟悉不过的歌曲。很矛盾对吗？
很多时候都是因为它能唤起很多的回忆。
在你听某首歌时在那个逝去的时空的心情。
当时的酸甜苦辣都会历历在目，涌上心头。
当年他最红的“我的未来不是梦”我并没有特别的喜欢因为还是个中学生。
在他突然车祸去世后才赫然发觉他很多歌我都懂也十分的惋惜那么个有才华的歌手就那么走了。人或许就是如此，人家在的时候你从没觉得对方特别重要直到有一天对方离开了、不在了才去依恋对方的一切。人不是很犯贱呢？
早在录影带还流行的年代我已经开始看台湾剧了。《金马大兵》《七匹狼》原来我都看过。虽然我从没有过他任何一片卡带 ＃那个年代只有卡带＃ 但是大海，一天到晚游泳的鱼，天天想你，我期待，还是朋友，最爱的人伤我最深，没有烟抽的日子，带我去月球，口是心非确是我最熟悉不过的歌曲。很矛盾对吗？
张雨生离开那么多年后，有一天我的好朋友突然把一首歌与我分享。我记得在那段开往晚餐赴约的途中我们都安静的把那首歌给听完。觉得它好听也觉得歌手的声音很像张雨生但他始终不是张雨生。我想很多人都知道我们那时候听的就是杨培安的《我相信》。我记得当晚我们一直在聊这位歌手的歌。原来她和我也一样听到他和陶晶莹和唱的《我期待》会热泪盈眶。听到《我的未来不是梦》会记忆回到中学。在近来的歌唱比赛节目也有一些歌手唱他的歌曲。尽管逝世已将近14年，不过他的音乐依然留在歌迷心中更多的发片歌手重唱了他的歌曲来向他致敬。今天会写那么多是因为在面子书里见到朋友在分享他的歌曲。所以也希望和大家分享卷毛喜欢的几首但。。。不是他本人唱的。
日本摇滚名人堂教父JAYWALK向雨生致敬重新演绎的《大海》
台大合唱团演唱口是心非
让卷毛每次听都动容的一首。
June 22, 2010
被击倒了
病恹恹的躺着。对抗寂寞和病魔的意志力降到最低点个。
真的很怕生病。＃谁会喜欢？＃
这次岛国的感冒病毒肆虐很多人都中招了。
而且是那种超强的病毒，要痊愈真的得花很长的时间。
把闹钟收音机给打开起码在药效逐渐消退醒来后是有声音陪着。
吃了很多的饼干，自己煮的白粥。
两天过去还是没丝毫好转的迹象。
真恨自己的身体那么没用。
June 21, 2010
尝试
在orchard central Nuoc 吃饭是用iPhone拍下的让后粗劣的缝合它们。
看来还是得用脚架才行。
乡巴佬的卷毛被那里的空旷视野个迷住了
心情也开阔起来，难怪古人都在登高望远。
人在局内所看的东西都是被局限着，有机会望另个角度去看世界。
世界就在另个面貌呈现在你面前。
真希望有天能和喜欢的人一起上来。
June 16, 2010
水淹乌节路
一直认为只有我们东海岸在季候风雨季的时候才会发生水灾因为排水系统不完善的关系。哪知岛国也被一场突如其来的大雨给击垮。很难想像最繁忙的乌节路竟然变成了泽国。希望地铁系统没被影响到才好不然卷毛就要走路回家了。> <
你没看错，地点就在ION 前面。
够有创意了吧？立刻有网友立刻合成了这张。呵呵。
祝大家端午快乐。吃多多粽子，连卷毛的份也吃。
June 14, 2010
盛夏的春跡
朋友喜歡上一個人。
就很低調很小心翼翼的在呵護著他期待會萌芽的種籽。
身為死黨的我看著個經過那麼長療傷空窗期的朋友，
終於有個人可以讓他心動的人出現肯定會替他開心。
只見他步步為營的說著每句話，
眼角的落寞也被溫暖的笑意給沖淡。
調笑他的戀情發展的如何？他就只是按耐著心中的甜蜜但有無奈的說對方是個神經比較遲鈍的傢伙所以可能還不只到他的心意。我聽了下巴真的差點掉下來但我也沒說些洩氣的話反倒是給他加油。幾次出來吃飯都看他老注意著手機。如果接到對方的電話就整個人快飄起來。在我們一幫朋友面前原來是大咧咧，粗聲粗氣突然變的溫文起來。原本的大哥就在電話旁也變成了小弟。看了真的是又好氣又好笑。
幾次大夥都逼他爆料，為甚麼會喜歡這個人？哪怕是嚴加拷問他就是寧死不屈不吐露出任何口風。這讓我們更對這神祕人更加好奇？最終在用絕交的殺手鐧下他才松了點口風，原來對方是個小他很多多的妹妹、兩人還是在網上認識的且是遠距離的等待。致於到底發展到甚麼程度他就寧死也不說了。
到今天為止，沒人知道這套感情劇可以上演多久？但可以清楚知道的是他對生活有了個重心。而整個人多了些色彩。也變的會表達自己的感情。雖然對我來說他是變的有點陌生，變的有點奴性。哈哈哈。但大致上我還是比較喜歡現在這樣的一個人。當然我也需要一點時間來適應他哪死人款。突然我也想談場戀愛。。。
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Ten Facebook friends you should delete
这是我在 ASIAONE 看到的一篇很幽默但又偏偏有道理的文章。
特地转贴过来和大家分享。
我想面子书在今时今日不可能没有人没有，朋友的数量也肯定也不少。
有时候就会为了各种的原因而想整理名单比如因为隐私或和某人绝交了等等。
以下就是很好的参考。当然我想它也可以用到msn上。
卷毛花了一段蛮长的时间来整理我的面子书的名单。
把它归类就花了我一整晚的时间。现在终于可以发些比较隐私和内在的想法了。呵呵。
毕竟不想被朋友归类为爱发垃圾的家伙。
Most people have a least a few dozen 'friends' on their Facebook list, but do we need them all? Here are ten types of Facebook friends you should say goodbye to.
10. The Old Classmate Whom You've Never Spoken To
He or she was your primary school classmate who sits at the other end of the classroom and never spoke more than four sentences to you the entire year.
This friend added you because you were tagged to another friend-of-a-friend's photo. After some initial chatter about a 'reunion' you've never spoken in the last half a year since.
Delete.
9. The No-updater
This friend had been on your Facebook list for more than a year and a half now, and you've never seen him or her update the page more than three or four times during the entire period.
Other than a generic profile picture, or - gasp - none at all, there are only a few other lines of similarly boring bits of information about this friend, like schools or workplace.
He or she never replies to wall posts, and never posts a message either. If you aren't using Facebook, then why are you on Facebook in the first place, Friend?
Delete.
8. The Health Freak
Most likely a female, she counts every calorie she eats, and bemoans that life is going downhill the moment she couldn't resist temptation and swallowed a single M&M.
She also believes in reading her own heath by studying what she poops, and posts all that information on her Facebook status on a daily basis.
Worse, she keeps sending messages telling everyone that almost everything you eat is bad for your health, and that you'll likely get cancer the moment you touch those Mars Bars.
While we all know that not everything we eat is good for us, we don't exactly need a constant reminder about that, thank you very much. And urgh, keep those poo analysis results to yourself. We don't need to know.
Delete.
7. The New Parents
They've already uploaded 362 pictures of their newborn and are taking pictures every time the kid cries, coos, sleeps or gets changed - which really means all the time.
Worse, they start posting status updates of what their little tyke is doing every minute of the day, including those activities described above. Then they start using their baby's photo as their profile picture.
Unless you're really enthusiastic about babies or want to engage in a baby status war using your own kid's pictures and status updates, this is someone you can skip.
Most of us aren't interested to know how fantastic your baby is and how unique the kid is - a few updates are okay, but when it's happening all the time, delete.
6. The 25-year-old Teenagers
These are the ones who flood their Facebook pages with every application possible, and fill in their entire profile page with glittery text.
Every other picture uploaded is of them trying on new clothes in some shopping centre dressing room, copying the latest Miley Cyrus style.
While they are certainly quite harmless, gaudy profiles and bimbo-esque updates aren't going to make the best impression of your social circle to others. Heed this warning especially if you have work or business contacts on Facebook.
Delete.
5. The Overly Emos
We all understand that is' perfectly all right to post one of those "This is the most stressful day of my life!" status messages once in a while.
But if every message this friend posts are of the same nature, you're looking at an overly emo, probably permanently unhappy person.
Life is hard as it is and we're not exactly too very eager to be reminded that it is a drag or that the world is going to end.
Delete.
4. The Bragger
Likely and ex-university classmate, he or she had quite a bit of success and is now living it up. That's good, until said friend wants to tell everyone about his or her achievements.
When you see status messages like "Just got another 6-month bonus! Woot!" or "What car should I buy with this huge commission I just got? I don't have a budget because I've got enough to pay for a house - in cash!", you know your friend had crossed the line.
You know what, Friend? We might reply with a congratulatory message or one of envy the first few times or so, but everyone's going to get tired of your bragging once this goes on for too long. Then you need to know that in actual fact, your Facebook friends don't really care.
Delete.
3. The Spammer
Your friend "just invited you to challenge him or her in Bejeweled!". Your friend "is looking for part 8 of the Secret Map of Doom, do you have one?". Your friend is "asking you to join his or her clan in Mafia Wars!".
When we aren't playing games on Facebookl we have a reason. It's either
[a] we're too busy working (not like you, slacker!); or
[b] our bosses are looking over our shoulders (of which at this point in time we're in deep trouble); or
[c] we're simply not interested.
If we're not taking up your offers to join you in your latest Facebook game quest after multiple invitations, it's more than obvious that we're not interested in playing.
And if you keep sending these invitations, they will be considered spam.
Delete.
2. The Stalker
The Digital age is all about instant communication though online interaction, and these friends are exactly that - except for the fact that they're a little too extreme.
Messages will usually start with "Hey how are you doing?" and should you be foolish enough to reply, a barrage of notes will follow.
"Hey, want to meet sometime?"
"What are you up to lately?"
"Seen that latest movie? Haha, I like it, do you?"
"Hey why aren't you answering me?"
"Haven't heard from you since 2 days ago, hey answer me!"
While we all enjoy being connected to our friends on Facebook, these people are part of the rare sub-species of humans who don't understand the meaning or have a need for alone time.
Delete.
1. The Ex
You got dumped few months ago, and now he or she is apparently having the time of her life.The Ex is very happy with new-found love, or has found a new bunch of suitors and is posting updates about ever romantic date of hot encounter on Facebook.
Worse, there are plenty of pictures to accompany the status updates, and you can't help but flip through the photo galleries and stare at what was once yours.
Delete. And move on already.
特地转贴过来和大家分享。
我想面子书在今时今日不可能没有人没有，朋友的数量也肯定也不少。
有时候就会为了各种的原因而想整理名单比如因为隐私或和某人绝交了等等。
以下就是很好的参考。当然我想它也可以用到msn上。
卷毛花了一段蛮长的时间来整理我的面子书的名单。
把它归类就花了我一整晚的时间。现在终于可以发些比较隐私和内在的想法了。呵呵。
毕竟不想被朋友归类为爱发垃圾的家伙。
Most people have a least a few dozen 'friends' on their Facebook list, but do we need them all? Here are ten types of Facebook friends you should say goodbye to.
10. The Old Classmate Whom You've Never Spoken To
He or she was your primary school classmate who sits at the other end of the classroom and never spoke more than four sentences to you the entire year.
This friend added you because you were tagged to another friend-of-a-friend's photo. After some initial chatter about a 'reunion' you've never spoken in the last half a year since.
Delete.
9. The No-updater
This friend had been on your Facebook list for more than a year and a half now, and you've never seen him or her update the page more than three or four times during the entire period.
Other than a generic profile picture, or - gasp - none at all, there are only a few other lines of similarly boring bits of information about this friend, like schools or workplace.
He or she never replies to wall posts, and never posts a message either. If you aren't using Facebook, then why are you on Facebook in the first place, Friend?
Delete.
8. The Health Freak
Most likely a female, she counts every calorie she eats, and bemoans that life is going downhill the moment she couldn't resist temptation and swallowed a single M&M.
She also believes in reading her own heath by studying what she poops, and posts all that information on her Facebook status on a daily basis.
Worse, she keeps sending messages telling everyone that almost everything you eat is bad for your health, and that you'll likely get cancer the moment you touch those Mars Bars.
While we all know that not everything we eat is good for us, we don't exactly need a constant reminder about that, thank you very much. And urgh, keep those poo analysis results to yourself. We don't need to know.
Delete.
7. The New Parents
They've already uploaded 362 pictures of their newborn and are taking pictures every time the kid cries, coos, sleeps or gets changed - which really means all the time.
Worse, they start posting status updates of what their little tyke is doing every minute of the day, including those activities described above. Then they start using their baby's photo as their profile picture.
Unless you're really enthusiastic about babies or want to engage in a baby status war using your own kid's pictures and status updates, this is someone you can skip.
Most of us aren't interested to know how fantastic your baby is and how unique the kid is - a few updates are okay, but when it's happening all the time, delete.
6. The 25-year-old Teenagers
These are the ones who flood their Facebook pages with every application possible, and fill in their entire profile page with glittery text.
Every other picture uploaded is of them trying on new clothes in some shopping centre dressing room, copying the latest Miley Cyrus style.
While they are certainly quite harmless, gaudy profiles and bimbo-esque updates aren't going to make the best impression of your social circle to others. Heed this warning especially if you have work or business contacts on Facebook.
Delete.
5. The Overly Emos
We all understand that is' perfectly all right to post one of those "This is the most stressful day of my life!" status messages once in a while.
But if every message this friend posts are of the same nature, you're looking at an overly emo, probably permanently unhappy person.
Life is hard as it is and we're not exactly too very eager to be reminded that it is a drag or that the world is going to end.
Delete.
4. The Bragger
Likely and ex-university classmate, he or she had quite a bit of success and is now living it up. That's good, until said friend wants to tell everyone about his or her achievements.
When you see status messages like "Just got another 6-month bonus! Woot!" or "What car should I buy with this huge commission I just got? I don't have a budget because I've got enough to pay for a house - in cash!", you know your friend had crossed the line.
You know what, Friend? We might reply with a congratulatory message or one of envy the first few times or so, but everyone's going to get tired of your bragging once this goes on for too long. Then you need to know that in actual fact, your Facebook friends don't really care.
Delete.
3. The Spammer
Your friend "just invited you to challenge him or her in Bejeweled!". Your friend "is looking for part 8 of the Secret Map of Doom, do you have one?". Your friend is "asking you to join his or her clan in Mafia Wars!".
When we aren't playing games on Facebookl we have a reason. It's either
[a] we're too busy working (not like you, slacker!); or
[b] our bosses are looking over our shoulders (of which at this point in time we're in deep trouble); or
[c] we're simply not interested.
If we're not taking up your offers to join you in your latest Facebook game quest after multiple invitations, it's more than obvious that we're not interested in playing.
And if you keep sending these invitations, they will be considered spam.
Delete.
2. The Stalker
The Digital age is all about instant communication though online interaction, and these friends are exactly that - except for the fact that they're a little too extreme.
Messages will usually start with "Hey how are you doing?" and should you be foolish enough to reply, a barrage of notes will follow.
"Hey, want to meet sometime?"
"What are you up to lately?"
"Seen that latest movie? Haha, I like it, do you?"
"Hey why aren't you answering me?"
"Haven't heard from you since 2 days ago, hey answer me!"
While we all enjoy being connected to our friends on Facebook, these people are part of the rare sub-species of humans who don't understand the meaning or have a need for alone time.
Delete.
1. The Ex
You got dumped few months ago, and now he or she is apparently having the time of her life.The Ex is very happy with new-found love, or has found a new bunch of suitors and is posting updates about ever romantic date of hot encounter on Facebook.
Worse, there are plenty of pictures to accompany the status updates, and you can't help but flip through the photo galleries and stare at what was once yours.
Delete. And move on already.
May 26, 2010
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朋友说读了我的部落后更了解我内心的想法。我就很纳闷的问他说，我给他的感觉难道那么迂回吗？大家都说我的情绪都显现在我的肢体语言上的。还记得以前的室友 们在一次嬷嬷档聊天时就刹有其事的说，在我心情不好的时候，距离五十公尺以外就能感受到气压变低。越靠近就有那种风雨欲来，大石压在胸口呼吸困难的感觉。 我还记得当下我直呼胡扯然后大笑但是其他人都突然好像经过排练般，一起猛点头。我才知道我竟然能像x-men那样有控制气候的能力。
但朋友又进一步解释说那是件好事，好过那些口蜜腹剑，两面三刀的小人。之此我就自以为自己是个形色于面，身边朋友都很解读我心情气候的人。 直到那位读到我部落文字的朋友说起，我才发觉每个人都有很多的层面。就如洋葱那样，一层一层的包裹着。你越剥越深就会让你觉得呛眼。虽然我是属于形色于面的外像动物了但也还是拥有另外一面：不为人知的一面。而那一面总会被悬挂在虚拟空间里的文字给流露出来。但我会觉得是件坏事吗？那就要看你从哪个角度来看了。你认为我会怎么去解读呢？
但朋友又进一步解释说那是件好事，好过那些口蜜腹剑，两面三刀的小人。之此我就自以为自己是个形色于面，身边朋友都很解读我心情气候的人。 直到那位读到我部落文字的朋友说起，我才发觉每个人都有很多的层面。就如洋葱那样，一层一层的包裹着。你越剥越深就会让你觉得呛眼。虽然我是属于形色于面的外像动物了但也还是拥有另外一面：不为人知的一面。而那一面总会被悬挂在虚拟空间里的文字给流露出来。但我会觉得是件坏事吗？那就要看你从哪个角度来看了。你认为我会怎么去解读呢？
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